Grief

While a loved one is dying, many family members and significant friends begin to experience grief. Although it is painful, grief is a normal and natural consequence of our human ability to love and live fully. Painful emotions such as sadness, anxiety, anger and even relief are fairly common. But grief is more than an emotional experience-it can affect our bodies with physical complaints and fatigue. Complaints about memory and concentration are not uncommon. As with many things in life, there is no one "right" way to grieve. Everyone faces loss and grieves in his or her own way.

As time with a loved one becomes increasingly short, many of us struggle with what to say. Ira Byock, M.D., writes in the book "The Four Things That Matter Most" about the importance of telling those we love how much they mean to us and how using honest, heartfelt words can bring peace of mind. He recommends using these phrases when letting someone know they are loved and will be missed.

Please forgive me.
I forgive you
Thank you.
I love you.

Pathways of Hope Grief Support

Group & Individual Counseling

Although the feelings of grief are normal, coping with these feelings can be a difficult and lonely experience. Sometimes people need help and support from others who understand or share the grief experience.

Pathways of Hope is the grief support program of The Hospice of Dayton and The Hospice of Butler & Warren Counties. Anyone in the Miami Valley area experiencing grief can receive grief support (also called bereavement) from Pathways of Hope without charge. Licensed and trained counselors and social workers provide one-on-one counseling and special group programs to address individual needs.

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